Mary and I would listen to these 45's for hours! |
Picture
it; Sunnyvale California, 1962. Ray
Charles could be heard crooning I Can’t
Stop Loving You, on the radio. The
Four Seasons told us Big Girls Don’t Cry,
some of us were doing the Twist to Chubby Checker’s Let’s Twist Again (like we did last summer) while others were
perfecting the Wah-Watusi. And though we were only seven years old, Mary
and I busied ourselves lip-syncing to every Beatle song we knew, with wooden
spoon or stick in hand to mimic our stage microphones.
Who among you still has this LP (long playing)? |
Life was so simple back then. Our only concerns were being first out on the
playground. Mary and I were the
four-square champs, consistently eliminating the other players until she and I
were the only two left in the over-sized paint-faded boxes. We then, joyfully competed to see who was
really on her game that recess. After
months of beating all the other kids out at four-square, Mary and I moved on to
tether-ball. That took us a bit longer to master, but master it we did. By mid-October, Mary and I found ourselves
bored to tears with the few options available to second graders.
As autumn
leaves crunched beneath our feet walking home one afternoon, Mary announced her
intention to join a Brownie Troop. “You
want to join Brownies? What’s Brownies?” I had been feeling worried about our close
friendship, lately. Mary was my best
friend, my only friend really. And in my
painfully shy and quiet demeanor, characteristic of skinny, homely girls, I had
somehow given in to thoughts that Mary wanted more out of life than me. I was certain she was yearning for prettier
friends, friends with more money, friends who were as smart as she was. This announcement of wanting to join
something called Brownies brought those fears and insecurities to the
forefront.
“Brownies
are Girl Scouts, silly,” Mary responded.
“Miss Stone told us about it today before we were excused from
class. She said, girls our age come
together and do fun things.”
Mary had pretty red hair - mine was a mousy brown-auburn. |
“Do they
make brownies?” Though I felt socked in the
stomach at the mention of “other girls our age,” I was intrigued. I had always wanted to learn how make
brownies. I loved them.
“I don’t
know about making brownies. But she said they do arts, crafts, they do learn
some cooking and they go on field trips to help people. I’m going to ask my mother if I can join.”
“Can I
join?” Not lifting my gaze from the tops
of my black and white saddle shoes, noticing my white bobby socks had once
again slipped down inside my shoes, I waited for Mary to answer.
“Yes! That’s why I’m telling you
about it, Deborah. I want you to join
with me! We do everything together!”
Somewhat
relieved, I took on a new worry as we turned the corner onto our street: will
my parents let me join? Money was always
a concern in my household even though both my parents worked. Mary’s mother stayed home.
My parents
did let me join. Surprisingly my mother
didn’t balk at the weekly dues or the cost of a uniform and sash. She was happy I wanted to do something that
put me with other little girl and involved activities she deemed far more
useful in life than singing Beatle songs.
I stressed to my mother my intention of learning how to make brownies.
After
three months of weekly meetings, Mary and I had learned how to make spiral lanyards
using plastic lace, how to disinfect every corner of our kitchens and bathrooms
and how to make wallets. We would sew
squares of felt together by using a large upholstery needle, a hot glue gun, and small remnants of felt along with spare buttons. This was one of my more creative escapades as a Brownie. Every adult in my family, who carried keys,
was awarded one of my handmade lanyards while all my babysitters were given
wallets. Both Mary and I earned our Good Housekeeping badges by having our mothers
keep track and record the number and type of household chores we did for an
entire month. I still keep the cleanest
garage and closets in the land. But to
my chagrin, we had not yet been taught to bake brownies. I was soon distracted from this let-down,
when our troop leaders announced it was officially Cookie Season.
I think I'd like to make these popular again! |
Still so cute |
And fully functional! |
Cookies
sales for Girl Scouts (GS) go back as far as 1917. By 1933, the now famous tradition of selling
cookies was typically a young girl’s first exposure to any kind of real business
example. The tasks of setting financial
goals, planning and predicting labor hours, familiarizing oneself with reading and
understanding demographics, and of course how to express herself courteously
and succinctly were all achieved through the cookie experience. There was a short interruption of cookie sales in 1944 when
eggs, milk, sugar and other staples were in short supply due to the World War
II. But after the war, GS troops
nation-wide were back selling those famous Sugar Cookies along with, Chocolate
and Vanilla Cream Sandwiches, Shortbread and Cooky-Mints (now known as Thin
Mints). The newest addition was the
“Do-si-Do” or Peanut Butter Sandwich Cookie.
Vintage |
After that afternoon’s meeting all
the girls in our Troop # 831 gathered their order forms and the manila
envelopes in which we would place the money we collected. We were instructed to walk around our
respective neighborhoods, dressed in uniform and explain how the selling of
cookies help GS all over the country learn important things, like cleaning,
cooking, organizing and most essential, how to be helpful and productive young
women. The money also helped send us on field
trips to interesting places and for those lucky enough to have troop leaders
who did that kind of thing, camping! Of
course we were encouraged to talk about how delicious each type of cookie
was. Armed and ready, each little girl
headed home eager to earn her proficiency badge for selling the most cookies.
Instinctively
knowing we were stronger together, Mary and I decided to pool our efforts and
sell cookies as a two-some. It made
sense; I had nearly three times more relatives living nearby than Mary. But her mother was active at their church and
the Women of Foreign Lands group (she was Hungarian) giving her access to a great
number of people outside our neighborhood and general school population.
Within one week, we had sold three times as
many cookies as any other girl in our troop.
When co-leader Miss Stone made her announcement to the troop as to whom
among us was projected to earning the much coveted proficiency badge, she was
astounded to see both Mary and I had turned in far more cash compared to the
other girls. Swimming in kudos and
cheers, Mary and I went home feeling like the Brownies of Wall Street, well on
our way to skipping along streets lined with proficiency badges along with
accolades from our peers.
By the time
the weekend arrived, Mary and I were pumped and ready. It was my mother, always up for a good
competition, who innocently and off-handedly came up with the idea. Moaning we had already worked our way through
the neighborhood and those within walking distance, Mary and I had run out of
customers. Mother’s comment was something
about lemonade stands and cookie stands.
With our cookie supply replenished Mary and I realized we needed a
better plan. One that didn’t involve
walking around and bugging people we had already visited and sold to,
twice.
“What
about setting up a cookie/brownie stand?
Kind of what your momma talked about,” suggested Mary. Believing Mary was not only prettier than I,
but smarter, I immediately agreed to the idea.
Running across the street from my house to hers, we charged into the
kitchen where Mary’s mother was busy preparing some Hungarian dish. I smelled cabbage and ground lamb, tomatoes
and something else unrecognizable. The
dinner smells at my house included Kentucky Fried Chicken, Rice-A-Roni (the San
Francisco treat) and spaghetti. Though
Mary and I were now on our third year of best-friendship, I still had not grown
accustomed to the heavy scents of the foods constantly cooking in her
house. Trying my best not to breathe too
deeply, I stood by, chiming in only when appropriate, as Mary proceeded to
explain our wonderful idea. She finished
by asking her mother if we could use the card table her parents unfolded every
Wednesday night for their pinochle game
with their grownup friends. Mary then
added, without hesitation, that her mother, please drive us to the nearby
shopping center so we could sell to more people. Mary was the apple of her mother’s eye. No was a word Mary rarely heard.
The next
morning, telling my parents how Mary’s mother gave us permission to sell in
front of the shopping center and how many boxes of cookies we would be selling
it only made sense that I too be given permission: which I was. From nine o’clock in the morning until noon
that day, Mary and I had sold every box of cookies issued to us the day
before.
Those are cookies embroidered on this badge |
By the
time the Girl Scout Cookie Selling Season had ended, Mary and I had not only
earned our proficiency badges for sales, we were mentioned in the Girl Scouts
of America Newsletter as the top salesgirls in the state! We were thrilled. This was more positive attention than I had
ever remembered receiving. My flat-chest
was so full of pride, it practically exploded.
Mary and I were honored in a special ceremony before our families and
other troop members. But we didn’t stop
there.
And when I was a GS Leader for my daughter's Brownie troop - I insisted we make denim Sit-Upons |
Weeks later our Troop leaders began preparing us for
outdoor activities for the coming spring.
We would be making “Sit-upons” so that we could sit comfortably on the
ground as we ventured into the realm of plants, flowers and nature:
botany. Ordinarily this would have made
me quite excited. My love of flowers and
birds has been with me for as long as I can remember. However, I couldn’t keep my feelings inside; “Mary,
when are we going to learn how to make brownies?” I lamented, “We are, after-all Brownies, so
we should know how to make brownies.”
“Have you
asked Miss Stone about teaching us, Deborah?”
“No, I’m
too scared,” I mumbled.
“Fine,
I’ll get my momma to teach us how. She’s
a great cook!
“Does she
make brownies?”
“I don’t
know, but she can make anything!”
Oh dear, I thought. But Mary’s mother did teach us how to make
brownies. The best I’d ever tasted, chewy,
chocolaty and moist. They were so easy. I
was genuinely astonished.
So it
was, on a warm, Saturday morning in late spring, Mary and I found ourselves
complaining about our perpetual state of not having any money. B & J’s Market across the street was our
favourite hangout. The place we’d go to
buy a variety of candies. We had gone
weeks without a Sugar Daddy or chew of Bazooka Bubble Gum. I ached for a Black Cow or better, an Abba
Zabba. Our parents said no to each and
every one of our requests for money. We
searched with zeal in the cushions of both sofas in both households. Mary went so far as to creep into her
parents’ bedroom and wriggled her fingers into the pockets of her father’s
trousers looking for loose change. Not
even the payphone next-door to B & J’s had change sitting in the small
slot. That was the one place we could
always count on to find a spare nickel or dime. In the early ‘60’s that was
plenty of money for two little girls to revel in. Then Mary, the genius between us, re-visited
that wonderful idea.
Together
we scurried through our respective kitchens, gathering all the ingredients
needed to bake brownies. Using Mary’s
kitchen and her mother, we prepared two dozen.
Then, again, Mary’s mother doing as Mary directed, we changed our
clothes and set up the card table along with our make-shift sign in front of B
& J’s Market and began selling our wares.
We sold every one of those brownies!
Leaving our post and making our way into the market, we shopped for
candy to our hearts’ content. The
following Saturday we did it again, this time making four dozen brownies. We made so much money we gave some to our
siblings so they could go buy candy.
Armed and ready! |
It
was on the third Saturday, I was merrily chipping away to a prospective
customer about how delicious our brownies tasted when we both heard the voice:
“Mary, Deborah, is that you?”
Though the voice sounded familiar the tone was less
than warm and friendly. It was Miss
Stone. “What are you girls doing?” Miss Stone loomed over us like a gigantic
shadow as though we were doing something wrong.
“Um, we’re
selling brownies,” answered Mary.
“I can see
that. And you’re wearing your Brownie
uniforms.” Miss Stone’s tone was still
clipped and her eyes narrowed. I had
never seen this look on her before.
“Well of
course we are,” replied Mary. Her voice
now more firm. How she could’ve sounded
so calm was beyond me. I was shaking in
my flip-flops. “We’re Brownies and we’re
selling brownies, so we have to wear our uniforms.”
Just then
a customer made their way over and purchased four brownies. My hands trembled as I did my best to hurriedly
wrap each chocolate treat in wax paper and take the twenty cents. “Hope this goes to good use for the Brownies,”
the customer said as he walked away. Our
handwritten sign read: Help Your
Lokal Brownies Buy Home-made Brownies Made by Two REAL Brownies!!!
“Do you girls know what
you’re doing? Do your parents know what
you’re doing?” Now, Miss Stone sounded
downright angry. Mary and I
looked at one another. Finally I spoke,
“Yes,” I replied meekly. That was the
best I could do.
“They know
you’re mis-using and mis-leading people?
They know you’re taking money under false pretense?”
Neither
Mary nor I were quite sure what false
pretense meant exactly, but we sensed we were in trouble. After explaining in seven year old detail how
we were giving some money away, not keeping all of it, Miss Stone insisted we
break down shop. Giving Miss Stone our
earnings for the day to apply to Troop # 831’s field trip fund we walked home
to get Mary’s mother so she could help us with the card table, sign and the
now, empty money box.
That was
a few lessons well learned! Though no
one can say we weren’t industrious and entrepreneurial. I still prepare those chewy, chocolaty, moist
brownies. And I do sell them, openly and
honestly, for profit and on behalf of my personal chef business.
What can I say? I'm still a GS at heart. |
Because I still, "Promise to do my best . . . to help other people. And to do a good deed everyday," I’d
like to share Mrs. Berg’s recipe for brownies; with my own updates and
adaptations.
Nuts inside |
No nuts, but chocolate ganache and a cherry on top |
Ingredients
8
Tblsp unsalted butter - melted
1 1/3 cup granulated sugar
¾
cup good quality unsweetened cocoa power
1/8 tsp salt 1 tsp espresso powder
2
whole eggs ½
cup all-purpose flour
1/8
tsp baking powder
½
cup chopped nuts + some for garnish if desired
Process Pre-heat
oven to 350 degrees
In a large mixing bowl, combine melted butter,
sugar, cocoa powder, with a whisk. Add
salt and espresso powder. Add eggs, one
at a time, stirring between additions.
Gently fold in, salt, flour and baking powder. If desired add nuts.
Pour batter into a well greased and floured 8 x 8
square baking pan. Bake for 30-40
minutes until firm in center.
Allow brownies to cool completely before cutting
into individual squares.
Makes about 12 brownies